One of the most important signs of puberty is the feeling - sexual desire (libido sexualis). The feeling that the women will develop gradually. In libido it is necessary to distinguish two different components: the search for reciprocal approach and the desire of sexual intercourse. The woman is particularly developed, the first of them.
Characteristic, that you can evolve enough on their own, not by switching to another. This emotional attitude to the person of the other sex the doctor for a long time identified as "a love supreme". Thanks to this feeling, the man becomes very near and dear. On the contrary, men have a particular meaning has the desire for sex, sexual intercourse, which doctors define as the sensual component of love. This component includes the desire to get special feelings of pleasures, occur in the process of intimacy.
In this way, if the sexual desire of men is manifested mainly with sensual side and only in a second moment (21-25 years) combines with a sense of love for the beloved, then the girls in the presence of the composition towards convergence, of course, that there is no desire for sexual relations. This desire in them appears only after a few months sexual married life, and often only after the first birth.
Thus, in the structure of the sexual desire of a woman ring leader in all phases of life is the love to the beloved person. Sensual the same component, as a general rule, a young woman for a while there is a certain time after the beginning of sexual life, and only then develops gradually.
The physiology of sexual intercourse in women
To better understand the mechanism of sexual intercourse in the female body, to familiarize you with the anatomy of the female genital organs.
Sexual intercourse (coitus) usually occur under the influence of sexual arousal (sanitary), high voice that is an orgasm (orgasmus) is a period of calm (defluvium), which comes after the end of sexual intercourse. The lack of sexual excitement the woman has called frigidity. During sexual intercourse a man's erect penis pushes the walls of the vagina and with the full introduction fills her.
Introduction erect member facilitates the ability of the vagina greatly lengthened. Due to the occurrence of sexual arousal before the introduction of the penis into the vagina, the man from the glands of Cowper pours out of glutinous secret, which wets the head of the member and makes it slippery. The substance, which is generated by the particular adrenal glands, makes the fat head, which also facilitates the introduction into the vagina.
In the large and small lips that lie a special tissue, surrounded by connective tissue. During the sexual excitement has spilled the blood, the flow in which it stops, while the flow in its course. The result is a swelling of the clitoris, labia minora with the formation of elastic rollers. Thanks to these transformations access the vagina becomes free. Also the woman's breast, breast, small vestibule and cervical spine showed slight mucus transparent.
In a sexual relationship not only did not make any resistance, but, on the contrary, it is much easier, and friction become painless.
The woman is also involved in the process: the skin and the mucosa of the penis rubs on the transverse folds of the vagina. At the same time you experience involuntary rhythmic contractions of the vaginal walls because of its sphincters. These cuts are particularly evident shortly before the cessation of the swelling of the genitals.
As it happens the orgasm in women?
The processes of both participants in coition appears a sense of sensuality as a result of nervous excitation toro, located in the head of the penis, and the woman in the head of the clitoris, when you enter the vagina, vulva and in the vagina. Irritation, which are perceived these nerve endings, are transferred to the spinal cord, and then to the brain. These irritation accumulate and are intensified, until it reached such a level of excitation, in which occurs a series of new reflections. The last link of the last is the expulsion of semen in men (premature ejaculation) and the secretion of the glands of the neck of the uterus, and Bartolini a woman's breasts. Premature ejaculation accompanied by a voluptuous sensation of orgasm. The origin orgasm, finally not clarified.
The women for the birth of an orgasm in need of a proper irritation erogenous zones, and also mentally erotic desire sex sexual intercourse. Unlike men women climb the orgasm is much slower, and the decay time longer. Same time period the "top" of the orgasm is still long in both.
The intensity of orgasm is highly variable and depends on the temperament and the constitution of the person. The orgasm may not occur as a result of reducing the excitability of the respective departments, visual hillocks for the damage to the site or to brake the effects of the cerebral cortex, due to the crisis factors (indifference, disgust, etc).
It is worth mentioning again and so unusual and very strong, he feels the orgasm as ejaculation or inkjet orgasm. The essence of it is that the woman ceases to be liquid: a small fountain of clear liquid squirted out of the vagina during orgasmic cuts. This liquid is formed in special glands, should not be confused with the urine. To reach a strong orgasm a woman can, if the man is stimulate the front wall of the vagina or the g-spot.
How long does a sexual relationship with the woman?
The normal length of sexual intercourse varies from 2 to 6 minutes. However, and here the great importance has the character of a person. On the duration of sexual intercourse also affect the intervals between the you have sexual relations. Along the the content and strong sexual arousal, significantly reducing the duration of sexual intercourse.
Because during sex for women there is no excitement?
One of the most serious mental injuries to a woman can be frustrating, almost to a man. Married with the person that has called you bright and high sentiments, it turns out to be unexpectedly cynical gaze of his men in the sexual life, in which she plays the role of a simple weapon of enjoyment.
That's why it's particularly great is the importance of the attitude of a man to a woman during sexual intercourse. The rudeness and lack of tact, detected her husband during the first sexual intercourse, they create a woman has a negative impact on the sexual relationship. And if sexual relations do not bring positive changes, this reflection becomes pathological, causing the following sexual coldness. More attention has to be relevant to a young girl who has not yet had sexual intercourse.
If she is still a virgin, he experiences fear for the first you have sexual relations. So the man must not reach the wife of the first sexual intercourse, and, of course, "the first night", and quietly wait for a couple of days for the communication process of all the days the woman has completely overcome the fear.
In this regard, with the girls who are getting married, doctors should conduct conversations, to explain to them that the loss of virginity is not a disaster, as often it seems. The hymen only very rarely solid. The bottom has a hole. If the shape of the hymen is that having sexual relations violate its integrity, at the time of the first sexual relationship is free; this marked absent sensation of pain. The bleeding that occurs in these cases, is negligible.
Injury during sex
Complications and injury during intercourse may occur, as a man and a woman. Sometimes women during sexual intercourse may be considerable damage to the genital tract. Rupture of the hymen depends on the degree of mechanical impact. The results of this damage are different: the anxieties of the hymen, lacerations, also the detachment of part of the hymen, mainly the rectal department.
These wounds occur because of molding and stretching with the introduction of the glans penis in the hole of the hymen. Edge of the hymen when pressed to the inside, and therefore the relaxation is interrupted.
Breaks during sexual intercourse can occur in different places, but most often found on the figure 6 (for the accuracy indicate a place of breaks accepted conventionally portrays them with the dial of a watch) or on the sides. When torn the hymen on the number 6 on the dial of the clock to times with about past sexual relationships, with the exception of the hymen lacerated, the posterior wall of the vagina, mainly in the mucosa. When expressed, the degree of immaturity of the sexual sphere of such damage can navigate in complete rupture the horse, and the walls of the vagina and of the arches.
In infantile women, where is the consequence of the underdevelopment of the genitals, and in the elderly and old - the result of atrophy and fragility of the tissues.
It should also be called such a complication, such as spastic reduction woman's vagina, thus causing a strong throttling member, the front part of it, especially the head, very swollen, and a member can not be derived from the vagina. In these cases, the woman must work in anaesthesia or to eliminate the violation with the help of a hot bath.
Sometimes during sex you experience communication difficulties with dryness of the vaginal mucosa in the case of infringement of secretion of the glands of Cowper, or special glands. In these cases, dry the mucosa prior to sexual intercourse it is recommended to moisturize through the lubrication grease emulsion, ointment or saliva.
Rarely, but it happens so catastrophic complication during sexual intercourse, such as death. Death in connection with the sexual act occurs during or immediately after him more often in men than women, the elderly, the sick, multiple sclerosis, cerebral, and coronary arteries, especially when this was preceded overeating or abuse of alcohol. The death may be the consequence of a stroke, heart attack, embolism, paralysis of the heart, and tuberculosis - severe pulmonary hemorrhage.
In some cases, gynecologists, and physicians have to deal with the complaints of the men, in particular, this happens in families, preaching islam. Last after the first wedding night accuse their wives and deception due to the small amount or total absence of blood. According to them, this fact is evidence of a long breach of the hymen. However, an examination of these cases, almost always show that men have been induced in error because of the presence in their wives, these forms of the hymen, which of their anatomical features allow you to have sex without disorders healthy. If the hymen is very low, the flow of blood from the surface of the portion negligible or not.
Obstacles to the penis the sexual intercourse the women have: vaginismus, infantilism, genital, expressed atrophic processes in their deformity to the development of external or internal genitalia (hymen, vagina), inflammatory processes, tumors, etc.